Modalities · Touch Therapy in Evanston

Touch therapy for when the body needs to feel safe before it can heal

Transforming Touch® is a gentle, regulation-focused approach that brings safe, consent-based touch into therapy. It supports nervous systems shaped by early adversity, attachment wounds and overwhelming experiences — at a pace that respects your history and your capacity.

Fully clothed

Always optional

Part of your therapy session

What Is Transforming Touch®?

Some wounds live in the body, not just the story

Developed by Dr. Stephen Terrell, PsyD, Transforming Touch® is a regulation-focused modality for people whose nervous systems were shaped by developmental trauma, disrupted attachment or experiences that were simply too much.

When early experiences leave the body braced, numb or on high alert, insight alone doesn’t always reach it. Gentle, attuned touch offers the nervous system a direct experience of safety and connection — so it can begin to settle in ways words can’t always create.

This work never forces change or pushes for emotional release. It follows your body’s cues, moment by moment.

Transforming Touch® is one of the trauma-informed somatic therapy approaches we offer at Living Well.

Presence

Your therapist stays calm, attuned and fully with you — offering the steady, regulated presence your nervous system can lean on.

Touch

Gentle, non-invasive contact — such as a hand on the back, shoulder or arm — offered only with your permission, over clothing.

Pacing

We go slowly, guided by your body’s responses, and never push through discomfort. Your nervous system sets the speed.

Who It Can Help

If you’ve talked it through, but your body hasn’t caught up

Early or developmental trauma, including experiences you can’t fully remember

Feeling numb, disconnected or always “on guard” in your body

Difficulty feeling safe, settled or at home in yourself

Attachment wounds that show up in relationships and closeness

Insight from talk therapy that hasn’t yet translated into feeling different

Ongoing stress, tension or a sense of being overwhelmed

What a Session Is Like

You’re in charge of every step

It starts with talking

Transforming Touch® is woven into your regular therapy session. We get to know your history and goals before touch is ever offered.

Consent, every time

Your therapist explains exactly what they’re offering and asks before any touch. You can say no, change your mind or pause at any moment.

Gentle and clothed

You stay fully clothed. Touch is light and supportive, and we notice together how your body responds.

Touch is always optional

Prefer not to be touched? We can do this regulation-focused work through presence, breath and awareness alone.

Over time, many people notice more ease in the body, steadier breathing, clearer boundaries and a growing sense of safety.

Our Transforming Touch® Therapists

Care from therapists who know the body’s language

Steve Thorpe, LCPC, founder of Living Well Psychotherapy

Steve Thorpe

LCPC · Founder
Ruth Minnick, LCPC

Ruth Minnick

LCPC
Liz Berland, LPC, SE

Liz Berland

LPC, SE

Questions

Your answers to common questions

No. Touch is always your choice. Many clients begin without it, and the regulation-focused principles of Transforming Touch® still guide the session.

Touch is light, supportive and non-invasive, such as a hand on the back, shoulder or arm. It's always over clothing and only offered with your permission. Your therapist explains exactly what they're offering before any contact happens.

Transforming Touch® is psychotherapy, provided by a licensed therapist as part of your therapy session. The goal isn't to work on muscles or release tension physically. It's to give your nervous system a direct experience of safety and connection that words alone don't always reach.

No. This work follows your body's responses in the present moment rather than requiring you to retell what happened. Many of the experiences it helps with happened early in life and can't be fully remembered or put into words.

You can say no, pause or change your mind at any moment, including partway through. We go slowly, guided by your body's cues, and never push through discomfort or for emotional release. Your nervous system sets the pace.

No. It's woven into your regular therapy sessions. We get to know your history and goals first, and touch is only offered once there's a foundation of trust.

Yes. Transforming Touch® is part of your therapy session, so it's covered the same way your therapy is. We'll verify your benefits and outline any costs up front, so there are no surprises.

Start with a free 15-minute consultation. Our intake team will answer your questions and match you with one of our Transforming Touch® therapists based on your goals and schedule.

You don’t have to face it alone

Curious whether Transforming Touch® is right for you? Start with a free 15-minute consultation. We’ll answer your questions and help you find the right therapist.